For those of you looking at me, I am not
depressed.
Neither am I oppressed just because you cannot
see my curves or my chest.
Does that mean I do not have femininity to suggest?
Does that mean I do not have femininity to suggest?
For those of you who look at me in utter
detest...
I do not care if you are not impressed.
Believe it or not, this is my choice and under this garment, I do have a voice.
Standing before you, respect is all I demand.
And understand this is something I planned
although you are right,
I am under a command… but please do not lower
it to that of a man!
Western women I hear you… you have your
sympathies...
But I urge and ask you, please do not pity
me...
For I believe it is my obligation to show you
through mere application...
That I know what it means to be free!
Because I have said no to ‘baby come here’...
'Miss World’… ‘Miss Universe’… 'Miss Thang of
the year’...
We are quick to judge what we do not understand
in a label-filled world.
I will not be part of a brand...
Those who are of rotten minds call it freedom
of the female species yet…
They exploit women whenever and wherever they
please...
You will never see me in a swimming suit and
then for a camera to pose.
No, no, no.
I am the girl in the hijab, more beautiful than
a rose...
Don’t be shocked by my confidence or did you
prejudge that too?
I am a woman and I feel just as entitled as you
do...
So next time you see me on the bus or on the
street,
Don’t be afraid to ask...
Any questions to the woman you assume to be
behind a black mask...
Miseducation is not needed in mankind.
Let’s get rid of it and choose to live in sight
than rather be blind.
And remember, like I said...believe it or not,
this is my choice and under this garment, I do have a voice!
This powerful poem was written by Habiba Ali, a 30-year-old Muslim woman
of Somali and Canadian heritage. She is a social service worker by trade but
considers herself an advocacy artist, using poetry, plays, skits and cultural
pieces to share distinct messages about life and circumstance. She is also the
proud mother of three beautiful girls and has lived in Canada the past 25 years.
Originally arriving with her family on holiday, they decided to stay after
civil war broke out in their homeland.
Habiba refuses to live a life defined by
stereotypes. “Or let stereotypes define how I see others,” Habiba adds.